Authored: April 20, 2020
"There's a certain nobility in being alone. I think when you realise through all your mistakes, frailties and baggage, nobody else deserves your mess, this decision will free you." - Unsaid sage
For a very long time in my life, I struggled with loneliness. Until fairly recently when I had a change of heart on what loneliness meant for me. Being "alone" and "lonely" are two separate things from each other.
Once you come to terms with who you are and what you can provide and what you can't, you can make a decision accordingly. I've seen and I've experienced dysfunction. I know how it is to be on the receiving end and how it is to sometimes in rage dish it out.
There's a growing number of people who are opting out of relationships. Their choice. This does not make them different, strange or hopeless. However they reach their decision, I understand them. And of course, these choices can always change.
Life is an evolutionary construct.
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